We decided on Love and Basketballwhich to this day remains one of my favorite movies. We are not built the same as men, but the lens through which we talk about sex or see it is often male. He was pro-life, I was not. I had given guys blowjobs and been fingered and made out with people so I thought "no big deal! The weirdest part was [after] we did it, we got out of the car and we both went our separate ways.
We broke up a few months later.
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Not pain but, uncertainty and I asked what no man ever wants to hear: I had a little cut just below my head that was bleeding a little. Yet for most of us, the first time is, well, awkward emotionally, logistically, spiritually, etc. It was also his first time, so it wasn't uncomfortable or anything. So one day it just happened: My first time was with someone I loved and who loved me back. I was 16 and he was